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Weddings are super happy occasions, though trying to figure out what to wear to them can be overwhelming. On top of this, the cocktail attire dress code can be notoriously unclear, especially if you don’t have any other instructions, which can make your attire options and shopping all the more confusing.  In this guide, we’ll clear up the confusion around wedding cocktail attire, so you can focus on getting psyched for the big day. Plus, we’ll offer a few outfit ideas to help you start your wedding guest attire research.  What Is Cocktail Attire?  Cocktail attire hits a balance between semi formal and semi casual. In terms of the vibe, think attire that you could wear to an upscale restaurant and still feel like you fit in. Cocktail dresses are probably what comes to mind first when you think about cocktail attire (rightfully so), but suits and jumpsuits also fit the bill.  Cocktail attire for other events tends to be a little less formal than cocktail attire for a wedding, so do keep this in mind when choosing a wedding outfit.  What Is Cocktail Attire for a Wedding?  As we said, cocktail attire for a wedding is pretty much the same as the cocktail attire dress code, but you’ll want to go more formal when in doubt. The longer the dress, the simpler it should be, though, to avoid upstaging anyone. A print can work wonders for this – we’ll get more into that later.  For a daytime wedding, you can play with lighter colors, but still keep your look elevated. For an evening wedding, you’ll want to stick to darker hues.  Wedding Attire to Avoid The main things to avoid when dressing for a wedding are anything that looks like a wedding dress, the color white, and the color the wedding party is wearing (especially the couple getting married!) Black used to be a taboo color, and red can also be dicey. While black isn’t as unpopular as it used to be, definitely check with the organizers before going with it.  If the organizers have requested that you wear a certain color, certainly make sure you do.  Be mindful not to have your attire be too flashy so as to keep from upstaging the couple and their ceremony.  And, of course, do dress to the dress code: No jeans, no T-shirts, and only dressy sandals.  Cocktail Wedding Attire Ideas Now that we’ve covered the basics of what cocktail attire is for a wedding, we can dive into some outfit ideas.  Cocktail Dress  Cocktail dresses are a classic choice for this dress code. To ensure that your cocktail dress is formal enough for the wedding, you’ll likely want to stick with a solid color. Do try on your dress beforehand to be certain that the hemline is long enough to be appropriate.  Midi or Tea-Length Dress These dresses are practically made for a cocktail attire wedding. The slight crop of the hemline tones down the formality of the full-length design, making it great to dance in and still adding an air of elegance.  Long Solid-Colored Dress  Long solid-colored dresses are perfect for evening weddings, especially in a darker color. When you’re looking at a long dress for a cocktail attire wedding, you’ll want to opt for a simpler design to avoid being too flashy.  Printed Long Dress The print on these dresses brings down the formality of the length, making them a great option for a daytime wedding. Florals complement a spring or summer event (June is the most popular time for weddings because of the weather) and are a classic wedding guest look.   Jumpsuit  If you’re not that into dresses but still want to give a sense of glamour, a jumpsuit can get you there. As a bonus, jumpsuits tend to be very comfortable and easy to move around in, so you can dance the night away!  Suit  Suits can have a little variety, too! You can do a lighter color suit for a daytime wedding, especially one taking place in a garden. Darker colors are expected for an evening event. Add a pop of color with your tie or shirt choice.  Is There a Difference Between Semi Formal and Cocktail Attire for a Wedding?  These dress codes tend to be used interchangeably, though cocktail attire for a wedding leaves room for slightly less formal looks than a semi-formal dress code.  Can You Wear Cocktail Attire to Both the Ceremony and Reception? Yes, and generally, you’ll want to choose an outfit that feels good for both. Changing midway through the event can be stressful, and others may find it distracting. If you know the reception will have a party atmosphere, consider choosing a look that can transition from a more formal ceremony moment to the party by removing some accessories. If the reception is on a different day or at a different location from the ceremony, feel free to have a secondary outfit. You will likely get dress code instructions for both events.  Will Other Wedding-Related Events Require Cocktail Attire?  This is something you’ll want to talk to the organizers about, especially if there aren’t clear dress code instructions on the invite.  Generally, you won’t have to dress with quite the amount of formality for these events as you would for a wedding, but do keep the venue in mind. For instance, if the bridal shower is taking place at a fancy restaurant, you may want to get a second cocktail attire-appropriate look.  For these events, you won’t want to wear what you plan on wearing to the wedding. You’ll also want to keep in mind any color-related faux pas. Wearing the same color as the wedding party to the rehearsal dinner won’t be the biggest deal, but you definitely will want to steer clear of white (or any color you’re instructed to avoid) out of respect.  What Is Cocktail Attire for a Wedding? Your Questions, Answered Figuring out what to wear to a cocktail attire wedding can be a little tricky, but it doesn’t have to be. When in doubt, ask the organizers or get some opinions on your outfit shortlist from your loved ones. For a more formal dress code, check out our guide on black tie weddings.  

Getting a wedding invitation can be a super joyous occasion; it’s wonderful to be asked to participate in such a special day. That said, choosing what to wear can be a challenge, especially when there’s a heightened sense of pressure to get it right.  Not only that, but dress codes for weddings can be confusing, only adding to the anxiety. Luckily, we’re here to help, so you can spend less time stressing and more time preparing in other ways for the big day.  Below, we break down the most popular wedding dress codes and give you a few outfit ideas to help you get started in your shopping.  What Is Appropriate Wedding Guest Attire?  Appropriate wedding guest attire highly depends on the dress code provided, which we’ll get into later. The first thing you’ll want to consider, though, is the color of your outfit.  Obviously, off-limits colors are off-limits. White or any dress that resembles a wedding gown is a typical no-no, though it’s great to check what color the star couple is wearing, just in case. Black and red used to be very taboo colors to wear to weddings, though many modern couples don’t mind either of these color selections as long as the red isn’t too flashy.  You also may want to avoid any colors that the wedding party is wearing, especially if you’re not super close with the couple getting married; that could get awkward! If you’re unsure, always check your planned outfit’s color choice with someone in or organizing the wedding. Finally, if the couple asks that you do wear a certain color, respect that.  Most importantly, you’ll want to make sure your clothes are clean, crisp, and comfortable; keep in mind that you’ll generally be sitting for a period of time and then, likely, doing some dancing. So, be sure you select a look that can take you through the best of both worlds without breaking a sweat.  Wedding Guest Attire Ideas Based on Dress Code Did you get a wedding invite featuring a dress code that you’re not sure about? Or, just looking for outfit ideas for your next wedding? Regardless, we have you covered with our guide to the most popular wedding guest dress codes.  White Tie This is the most formal dress code, both for weddings and for events in general. White tie weddings specifically require a tuxedo that has tails on it, which is one of the most formal garments you can buy.  For a white tie wedding, even if it’s set during the day, you’ll want to opt for a neutral-colored dress, as black or navy is more formal than pastels or other tones. A dress should be floor-length, so be careful if there’s dancing.  Black Tie  Like white tie weddings, black tie dress codes also require a tuxedo, but they don’t need tails. Black tie dresses can be a little less formal than a white tie, but you still want them to be darker in hue and floor length (or at least hitting your shoes). Choose a dress with minimal embellishment to keep the attention on the party.  Jumpsuits can also be a good option for a black tie wedding, though do be sure that it’s formal enough. In this case, you’ll want to make sure there are embellishments and formal details like a structured silhouette, beading, and sleeves.  For more on accessorizing for this dress code, check out our in-depth guide on what to wear to a black tie wedding.  Black Tie Optional  Black tie optional is a dress code firmly between black tie and formal, described below. For these weddings, you can wear a tuxedo and a full-length dress and fit right in, but it’s not a requirement.  Suits are appropriate at a black tie optional wedding, as are tea-length dresses. However, if the wedding is going to be in the evening (after 6:30 P.M.), you may want to opt for the floor-length look, as later events tend to run more formal.  Formal  This is one of the most common wedding dress codes, and luckily, it’s fairly straightforward. Suits and longer dresses are appropriate; don’t go any shorter than tea-length. Suits should always be black or deep navy, but dresses can vary a bit more in hue as long as the color is more formal than not (for instance, neon pink may not be appropriate).  A formal dress code also offers a bit of wiggle room in the neckline; a dark-hued one-shoulder dress can perfectly strike the balance between formality and modernity.  Cocktail or Semi-Formal This dress code is another that’s very popular with wedding organizers, and it can be one of the most confusing. Firstly, cocktail and semi-formal tend to be used interchangeably, and the general vibe is something between business casual and formal.  An elevated midi dress is tailor-made for these dress codes, as they’re long but not too long (and cropped without being too short). You also can’t go wrong with a suit featuring a jewel-toned tie or a maxi dress in a print. Daytime summer weddings are perfect for a floral, especially in pastels. Context is going to be really important for this one when it comes to color choice or whether you can go with a print or a light color and fit in. When in doubt, though, go a little more formal.  Festive or Themed This one’s super subjective, as different themes will mean different things. Typically, some other information will be included; in the case of ‘tropical,’ ‘beach,’ or ‘destination’ dress codes, you’ll be told where the event will be and whether a bathing suit is appropriate. Other dress codes may be included, too, like ‘formal western.’  If you don’t want to look costumey, consider incorporating key theme colors or details into your look. For instance, if you’re heading to a Gatsby-themed wedding, go with a look featuring a bit of fringe and wear a headband that nods to the flapper style.  This is one dress code that organizers are likely expecting questions on, so don’t be afraid to reach out to them or other people you know who are going to the wedding to confer. Definitely keep in mind the climate and type of year so you’re dressed to the temperature, especially if you’re traveling to a destination.  Casual The casual wedding dress code is a little misleading. While it’s casual, you’ll still want to dress up a bit; go with a business casual vibe. It’s still a wedding, so of course you’ll want to look crisp and put together in pictures. So, unless the dress code specifically states that you can wear jeans, avoid them.  Casual wedding dress codes are perfect for printed dresses and jumpsuits in less-formal silhouettes or fabrics. If the wedding takes place any earlier than the evening, don’t be afraid to go with pastels, as long as they’re not too light.  What If There’s No Dress Code Listed? Sometimes the organizers won’t list a dress code – don’t panic!  First, look at any clues on the invitation or the wedding website. Sometimes, the dress code may not be on the main page and can be found in a section labeled “FAQ” or “Before You Attend.”  If there’s no direction on the website, note the time of day and the venue. Googling the venue and seeing what the vibe is like can give you a lot of guidance on what kinds of clothes you should consider. Plus, generally, the later in the evening the wedding is, the more formal it’s going to be, so this will be a pretty good clue.  If you’re still not sure, reach out to the organizers and ask.  Does Time of Year Matter for Wedding Attire?  Yes, when you’re choosing an outfit for a wedding, you’ll want to keep the time of year in mind. If it’s a spring or summertime wedding, you can generally opt for lighter fabrics and colors unless it’s a very formal wedding (black tie or white tie). For an autumn or winter wedding, stick with darker colors and choose fabrics that are a bit heavier. You may also want to incorporate some cold-weather accessories, such as a matching shawl or tights, to ensure you stay warm, especially if the wedding is taking place outside.  For a dress (or other look) that you can wear to multiple weddings across different seasons, opt for medium-weight fabric choices and more neutral colors, such as navy or black. The great thing about this type of base is that you can accessorize it endlessly, and it can take you through a ton of different events.  Dressing Your Wedding Best!  Now that you know the ins and outs of wedding guest attire, you can shop for and attend your next wedding with confidence and style!

Formal events always come with a dress code to follow, and black tie weddings are probably the strictest of the bunch. As an elegant, sophisticated occasion, you can expect the dress code of a black tie wedding to be described in a similar way. You likely already know that you should wear something refined and respectful for the event, but what exactly does that entail? The nuances of a black tie wedding can be a bit overwhelming, especially if this is your first black tie event. In this article, we’re going to explain what to wear to a black tie wedding so you can make sure you know how to make a lasting impression. This article discusses appropriate attire for both men and women, the classic tuxedo and evening gown, and the accessories that complete the ensemble. We'll also let you in on all our secrets on color palettes and fabric choices so you can truly look your best.  What to Wear to a Black Tie Wedding: Women’s Attire You’ve probably been told you need to wear an evening gown for a black tie event, but there’s a lot more that goes into this decision. Here, we’ll take you through our recommendations for evening gowns, accessories to go with them, and hair and makeup to tie it all together. Evening Gown As far as a woman's black tie attire goes, the evening gown is pretty much the only right choice. This gown should be floor-length and made from silk, satin, velvet, or lace; anything luxurious. Options for the neckline range from a classic sweetheart to a sophisticated halter, but we generally recommend opting for a more modest style that complements your figure.  If you’re confused about the decision for the fabric and style of your gown, consider the season when you’ll be attending; a lightweight silk gown is best for a summer wedding, but a velvet gown might do you better in the winter. This does come down to preference, however. Accessories Accessories will help you complete your black tie ensemble. For your essentials, go with a delicate clutch or a small evening bag. As for jewelry, we usually recommend the classics: a diamond necklace, elegant earrings, and a bracelet. High-heeled shoes, preferably in a neutral color like silver or gold, will help elevate your look a touch. When choosing your accessories, make sure they complement your evening gown and overall style, which means no overly large or flashy accessories that might detract from the theme. Hair and Makeup Like your accessories, the hair and makeup should complement your evening gown and overall look. If you’re unsure, take your pick between the classics: a chignon, updo, or soft curls. Keep your makeup natural and sophisticated while highlighting your features with subtle contouring, mascara, and a touch of lipstick. Choose a color palette that complements your skin tone and the overall aesthetic of your outfit. Color palettes are discussed in detail in a later section. What to Wear to a Black Tie Wedding: Men’s Attire If you’re just picking out a standard black tuxedo and calling it a day, you might be missing out on making your best impression at the event. In this section, we’ll go into everything that ties a man’s black tie attire together. Tuxedo The tuxedo is to men’s black tie attire what the evening gown is to women’s. It’s the standard suit, but it doesn’t have to be the standard style every time. A tuxedo is usually characterized by its black jacket with satin lapels and black trousers with satin side stripes, but we recommend experimenting with a navy one too. You might be pushing it with other, less common colors, but a navy jacket is perfectly acceptable at most events and helps you stand out just that little bit more. The jacket of your tuxedo should fit impeccably, with a tailored silhouette that accentuates your physique. The trousers should be hemmed to just above the ankle. The fitting of the tuxedo jacket can really make or break your whole outfit, so make sure it gets the appropriate attention. Shirt and Bow Tie The shirt worn with a tuxedo should be a white dress shirt made from a fine fabric like cotton or linen. The collar should be a wingtip or a spread, the two most commonly used formal types. A black bow tie is also the traditional pairing for the tuxedo, so make sure you have one. It should be tied carefully and adjusted so it’s comfortable around your neck. Like the rest of the outfit, the bow tie should be made from a high-quality fabric, such as silk or satin. Accessories Accessories at a black tie wedding are as important for men as they are for women. As a man, you should choose a black patent leather belt and your best pair of dress shoes (we recommend oxfords or wingtips). A pocket square can also add a touch of personality to your tuxedo jacket. Don’t forget your timepiece - a classy Tissot can add a lot of sophistication to your look without breaking the bank. Grooming Grooming is an everyday essential, but it’s all the more important if you want a polished black tie look. Whichever hairstyle you choose, make sure it’s neatly styled and well-groomed. If you have facial hair, it should be trimmed and properly maintained.  There are too many perfumes or colognes to choose from (depending on the season, style, etc.), so as a general recommendation, we advise against strong or overpowering ones. A subtle fragrance is all you’ll need to lift your whole impression. Little details like this will make all the difference for you on the evening More Do’s for Both Men and Women Now that you have a baseline for what to do with your outfit and accessories, you can get into the nitty gritty of your overall look; that’s what we’ll cover in this section. Color Palette At a black tie event, your options may be a bit limited in the color palette, depending on how strict the dress code is. If you want to go with something solid and dependable, black is the traditional color that you just can’t go wrong with. This will work for both tuxedos and evening gowns.  That said, there are other options that can work just as well too. For men, our favorite is a midnight blue tuxedo or even a charcoal gray suit. For women, you can consider a navy blue, emerald green, or dark silver evening gown as well. The only guideline to keep in mind with different colors is not to go for really flashy ones that might stand out in a distracting manner. After all, you don't want to distract from the party or the bride's dress. Fabric Quality The quality of the fabric used in your outfit plays a much bigger role in how you’ll look than people often expect. High-quality fabrics that are both durable and luxurious are a must here. For women, these would be silk, satin, velvet, and lace. Not only do they look the part, but they also drape beautifully and make you look graceful regardless of the setting. For men, your tuxedo should be made from a fine wool or cashmere blend. The fabric should be soft to the touch and have a subtle sheen.  Fit and Tailoring As we emphasized earlier, fit and tailoring can really make or break your whole look. For men, your jacket should fit snugly across the shoulders without being too tight. The sleeves should be the correct length, which means ending just above the wrist bone. The trousers should be hemmed to your preferred length and fit comfortably around the waist. For women, the evening gown should flatter your figure and curves. The tailoring should be such that it fits snugly around the bodice and waist, with a flowing skirt that goes with your body type. Comfort We often see people overlooking comfort in favor of looking their best, but you don’t necessarily have to choose between the two. A good looking outfit can be your most comfortable one as long as you choose it right. For starters, whichever attire you go with should let you move freely and enjoy the evening.  Women should look at the length of the dress in this respect (does it let you move around easily?) Heels are the most common choice for shoes, so make sure they’re your most comfortable pair. For men, when getting your suit tailored, make sure it’s not so tight that it restricts your movement, even if it looks fine at a surface level. Get a good pair of dress shoes with good cushioning and support to avoid discomfort. Mastering the Art of Black Tie Attire And there you have it! By now, you should know everything you need to look your absolute best for the evening. Once again, we’d like to emphasize the importance of your fitting and tailoring; it’ll define not just how good you look, but how comfortable you are at the wedding.  You also have options with colors, though we’d generally recommend staying on the darker end of the spectrum with your choice. Last but not least, remember to be your most confident self at the event - your attire will follow suit, and you’ll make the best possible impression on your peers.  

Weddings are typically held at sophisticated venues and call for a black-tie dress code. However, a beach wedding throws this tradition out to sea (literally). Instead of ironing your suit and polishing your loafers, you’ll need to bring out sunscreen and sunglasses. A beach wedding is a romantic way for the couple to let their wild and convention-defying personalities shine through. However, there’s no denying that knowing what to wear to a beach wedding can be tricky. Not only do you have to consider wedding etiquette and the couple’s preferences, but you also have to think about the elements and heat. Today, we’ll share our favorite beach wedding outfit ideas below to help you style the perfect beach-ready look. We’ve made sure to include outfit ideas for both ladies and gents, and we’ll also share some styling tips that’ll ensure you look (and feel) your best.  What to Wear to a Beach Wedding: Beach Wedding Attire for Women Weddings traditionally call for opulent bridal gowns, floor-length formal dresses, and heels. However, beach weddings typically allow more room for flexibility. Most beach weddings stick to semi-casual wear and are after a laidback, boho vibe. With this in mind, here are some great beach wedding outfit ideas for guests: Maxi-Length Dress A breezy maxi dress won’t just keep you comfortable and cool under the hot summer sun; it’ll also accentuate your natural features and perfectly capture that boho, relaxed feel a beach wedding is all about.  Maxi-length dresses come in a wide array of styles, though you generally want to opt for breathable materials such as linen, rayon, and chiffon. You should also pick a dress color that suits the wedding theme and flatters your skin undertones. Below, we’ll provide more insight into how to pick the perfect color for a beach wedding, so don’t fret if you’re still struggling with the nuances.  As well as the material and color, you should also consider the dress’s neckline and silhouette. Different necklines and silhouettes suit different body shapes, but you can’t go wrong with an A-line silhouette and a V-neckline. This combo is universally flattering and is perfect for a beach occasion.  If you want to add a touch more sophistication, elevate your look with a halter maxi dress. Pair with a luxurious matching clutch bag.  Midi-Length Dress  If the dress code leans more casual, you can definitely get away with a midi-length dress! Midi dresses are slightly shorter than maxi-length dresses, with most falling just below (or in line with) the knee. This length flatters all body types and conveys a feminine, fun vibe — apt for a beach wedding. Just like maxi dresses, midi dresses come in a wide array of designs, so you’re sure to find an option that suits the occasion and your features.  Don’t be afraid to play around with textures here, too. For example, a midi dress with ruffled sleeves is totally gorgeous and adds dimension to your outfit. And a fun perk? Textures like ruffles can even help capture the ebbing and flowing feel of waves! Jumpsuit Many guests choose to wear dresses to beach weddings. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t defy conventions (provided the dress code allows it). A jumpsuit is a stunning statement piece that’ll convey your rebellious side without taking the spotlight away from the bride. A jumpsuit with an open back will help keep you cool at the beach, and it even has a chic, modern vibe. You can dress the look up effortlessly with a clutch bag or keep it casual with sunglasses and your favorite strappy sandals.  If the beach wedding leans formal, stick to neutral colors and consider a jumpsuit with sophisticated beaded embellishments. Blouse and Skirt Combo A breathable blouse paired with a flowy skirt is a gorgeous (and practical) combo for a beach wedding. While you’ll no doubt look effortless and sophisticated in any skirt you wear, stick to knee-length or below to keep it wedding-appropriate.   A patterned, floral skirt can work perfectly for a laid-back summer beach wedding, but just make sure to avoid the color white. You should also ensure the skirt’s color palette doesn’t clash with the wedding party colors. What to Wear to a Beach Wedding: Beach Wedding Attire for Men  Next up are some stunning beach wedding outfits for men! These looks are comfortable, practical, and flatter all different features and physiques. While you can’t go wrong with these outfits, don’t be afraid to bring in your own personal flair, whether through accessories or colors. This will let you feel your best and be confident in what you’re wearing! Button-down shirt with slacks and a pair of smart chinos Buttoned linen shirt with a lightweight suit blazer  Cotton short-sleeved shirt with tailored shorts; neutral hues  Linen oxford shirt with a patterned bow tie A light-colored, breathable three-piece suit for formal occasions  Beach Wedding Styling Considerations  There are a few factors to consider when styling your beach wedding attire, including: Colors: Consider choosing colors that flatter your natural skin undertones. If you have warm undertones, opt for earthy hues like amber or beige, while if you have cool undertones, pink and blue will flatter you beautifully.  Dress code: As a wedding guest, you should familiarize yourself with the wedding dress code. Most beach weddings have a semi-casual dress code in place, but there are always exceptions, and some lean more formal. The dress code should be detailed in your wedding invitation.  Comfort: Always prioritize comfort when styling your outfit. Feeling relaxed and at ease in what you’re wearing will allow your confidence to shine.  Weather: Make sure to dress appropriately for the weather — check the weather forecast in advance! If you’ll be out under the sun for the whole event, pack SPF and use protective gear like sunglasses.  Shoes: While casual sandals are typically a no-go, dressy sandals or block heels work well for most beach wedding events. Accessorizing for a Beach Wedding Accessories are a must at a beach wedding! You can use them strategically to protect yourself from the elements, and they’ll also let your personality shine through.  Great accessories that are protective and stylish include sunglasses, sunhats, linen blazers, and sun-blocking, elbow-length gloves. However, be mindful of the wedding dress code. A sunhat works great at a beach wedding with a semi-casual feel, but if the wedding still has a formal dress code, you’ll want to give the sunhat a miss and pack on the SPF instead. Another accessory that’s sure to help complete your look is a sophisticated clutch bag. A straw-woven clutch is a beach staple that can withstand sand, heat, and sea salt. You can even find straw clutch bags that feature gorgeous patterns, which can help elevate your look for a formal beach wedding. Jewelry such as pendant necklaces can also help finish off your outfit. However, leave your finest pieces at home. A beach wedding means a whole lot of wind and abrasive sand, all of which may damage jewelry or make it impossible to find if you accidentally drop it. A high-quality leather belt can work beautifully, too, provided it’s not too bulky or distracts from other elements of your outfit. Keep to neutral colors and avoid belts with obtrusive patterns or embellishments (like metal studs). Beach Wedding Etiquette: Do’s and Dont’s A beach wedding may not be traditional, but that doesn’t mean etiquette has been cast out to sea too. Here’s a quick rundown of what to avoid when attending a beach wedding as a guest:  White or cream-colored dresses; doing so would overshadow the bride on her special day. You should also be mindful of light pastel hues since these can get washed out and appear as white in photography Swimwear and overly casual beach attire (think beach shorts, denim jeans, and flip-flops) Extravagant accessories that draw attention away from the couple  The wedding party colors; you don’t want to be mistaken for a wedding party member  When in doubt, make sure to reach out to the couple with any queries or concerns about the dress code. Just be mindful to ask in advance and not the day before the wedding! Sun, Sand, and Wedding Bells A beach wedding is buckets of fun, but don’t get too swept away by the laidback vibes. Be mindful of the dress code, familiarize yourself with wedding etiquette, and take measures to protect yourself from the heat. Most importantly, make sure the outfit you pick brings out your confidence and complements your features.

Weddings are a time for celebration. You get to reunite with friends and family, witness the love between those dear to you, and party the night away.  However, while weddings are a joyous occasion, knowing what to wear as a wedding guest can be pretty daunting. Not only do you have to think about the dress code and venue, but you also have to choose an outfit that flatters you without taking attention away from the bridal gown. That’s why today, we’ll use our expert eye to help you find the perfect outfit for a formal wedding. We’ll also share some styling tips and outfit ideas to get you started. Formal Wedding Etiquette: Dress Code and Other Considerations If you’re attending a formal wedding, there are a few things to remember to ensure you’re not too underdressed on the day or committing a wedding faux pas. Formal Dress Code  A formal dress code means ditching the sweaters, sandals, and jeans. It’s a more sophisticated version of a cocktail dress code, and your outfit should have a refined flair and appear well-fitted. Common formal attire includes maxi-length dresses, tuxedo suits, stiletto heels, and tailored blazers. Be mindful that a formal dress code isn’t the same as a black-tie dress code, which calls for full-length ball gowns and black dinner jackets. A formal dress code offers more room for flexibility, meaning you can opt for bolder colors and the likes of midi-length dresses and flats, provided your outfit is still polished. Wedding Etiquette  As a guest at a formal wedding, you should typically avoid wearing white or off-white colors like cream, nude, and ivory. This is especially the case if you’re wearing a maxi-length dress. Wearing white takes attention away from the bride and will draw the spotlight on you for all the wrong reasons.  Some brides are more than happy for their guests to wear white, especially if they have a specific theme in mind or there are cultural differences at play. However, unless your friend has specified that white is permitted, avoid this shade (and similar hues) at all costs. You should also avoid wearing light colors like pastel yellow and pale blue. While these colors may not draw eyes in person, when photographed, they often become washed out and appear as white. This is particularly the case if your friend has opted for a wedding photographer with a light and airy editing style. Wedding Party Colors As a wedding guest, you usually want to avoid wearing the same colors as the wedding party. This prevents awkward mix-ups on the day and ensures the bridal party will stand out in the wedding photos.  Usually, the wedding color palette and any other important information will be detailed in your invitation. However, if you can’t find anything specifically mentioned, take a close look at the actual design of the wedding invite. You can usually find stylistic nods to the color or theme in its design. For example, if the wedding invite incorporates eucalyptus or ivy foliage, this would usually suggest the party color is green.  When in doubt, don’t be afraid to reach out to the bride or groom directly and ask for clarification regarding party colors, wedding theme, or dress code. Just make sure to ask them well in advance and not the day before the wedding! They’ll likely be very overwhelmed at this stage, and they won’t have the mental energy or time to respond. Shoes   A formal wedding calls for a sophisticated pair of shoes that’ll help tie the overall look together. However, be sure to prioritize your comfort, too — you’ll likely be on your feet the whole day and doing a whole lot of dancing! If you’re not comfortable with stiletto heels, consider a low, thick heel instead, such as a wedge or block heel. You can also opt for a wide fit to give your feet more breathing room and keep those pesky blisters away.  If you struggle with heels, a pair of pointed-toe flats is usually a safe option since they’re comfortable yet still provide that dressy, sophisticated vibe.  Men should stick with the classics; think oxford shoes, brogues, and slip-on loafers. Keep to high-quality materials, such as leather suede, and neutral colors, such as black, brown, and tan.  Season and Weather Don’t forget to dress appropriately for the season when attending a formal wedding. If you’re attending a summer wedding, opt for lightweight, breathable materials like chiffon to ensure you’re comfortable and don’t overheat throughout the day. In the winter, layer up and stick to warm materials like velvet. Make sure to check the weather forecast before the big day too. Venue Location  Venue location is just as important when thinking about a formal wedding guest outfit. If the venue is a luxury hotel and involves a five-course wedding dinner, you’re going to want to err on the “black-tie” leaning side of formal. However, if the ceremony is held outside and there’s a slightly more boho feel, you can probably get away with strappy, low heels for shoes. You may also be able to experiment with floral patterns or playful ruffles. Your Natural Features  Wedding guest attire comes in a vast range of colors, designs, and silhouettes, and certain styles will be better suited to your natural features than others.  While it can be tricky to determine specifically which styles will flatter you, always consider what you feel the most comfortable in. Consider previous outfits you’ve worn and loved, in addition to the styles you typically find your eyes drawn to when window shopping. Picking an outfit that you feel at ease in is sure to let your confidence shine through. It will also allow you to focus on enjoying the day itself rather than stressing over your appearance. Accessorize Accessories can help tie your look together and allow you to express your personality. You can elevate your look with a sophisticated belt, clutch bag, silver earrings, or a pendant necklace.  Just make sure that your natural features remain the focus; too many accessories can overwhelm your outfit and ruin the overall look. Formal Wedding Outfit Ideas for Women Below, we’ve gathered some of our favorite formal wedding outfit ideas. They offer that perfect blend of sophistication and comfort. They’re also sure to flatter your natural features without breaking wedding etiquette or taking attention away from the bride.  A-Line Ruffled Dress: An A-line ruffled dress is playful, feminine, and romantic. You can keep the look subtle with ruffles on the bodice or sleeves, or go for a more showstopping look with a ruffled skirt.  Satin Drape Midi-Length Dress: A satin dress with a drape cut is modern and universally flattering. Pair with a matching clutch bag to catch the eyes of other guests without stealing the spotlight from the bride. Floral Maxi Dress: A floral maxi dress won’t just keep you cool at a summer wedding; the style is also sure to accentuate your natural beauty, draw attention to your neckline, and offer a whimsical yet elegant vibe that very few dress styles can match.  Asymmetrical Maxi Dress: An asymmetrical cut is a great way to express your creative side while keeping in line with the formal theme. You can elevate the look further by pairing the dress with contrasting jewelry.  Sleek Tailored Jumpsuit: A jumpsuit is effortlessly chic and will allow you to dance the night away. Stick to a tailored fit to keep your look in line with the formal dress code, and pair with black heels.  Formal Wedding Outfit Ideas for Men Now for the Gents! Here are some staple outfit ideas that are sure to suit the formal occasion: A slim-fit suit with a white shirt and brogues for a classic look. Stick to neutral shades such as navy, gray, and beige.  A charcoal gray suit with a sophisticated wristwatch and embellished cufflinks. A burnt orange suit with a pair of leather dress shoes. Ideal for the fall season. A three-piece wool suit to keep you snug and stylish in the winter months. Remember What a Wedding Is All About While dressing for the occasion is important, don’t get too stressed and overwhelmed by it all. At the end of the day, what matters is being there to share your support and love for the happy couple! As long as you feel confident in what you wear, and it adheres to the couple’s dress code, you can’t go wrong with your outfit.  Be sure to check out our catalog for more formal wedding outfit ideas. From elegant maxi-length dresses to stunning jumpsuits, you’ll find a look that suits your features and the occasion in no time.

Rehearsal dinners are typically more formal events than a bridal shower that occur the day before a wedding takes place. The rehearsal dinner is an older tradition, but many brides and grooms choose to use the rehearsal dinner as a way to enjoy their time with their families and friends before the big day. If you have been invited to a rehearsal dinner, you are likely wondering what to wear and how to dress appropriately for the event. Our article gives you essential tips on what to wear to a rehearsal dinner. What Is a Rehearsal Dinner? A rehearsal dinner is the dinner that occurs after a wedding rehearsal takes place. The wedding rehearsal is where the wedding party will practice walking down the aisle and ensures that everything is ready for the big day. Wedding rehearsals and rehearsal dinners typically occur a few days before the actual wedding date. Traditionally, the groom’s family plans and pays for the rehearsal dinner, though this tradition is not seen as binding in today’s modern wedding world. In general, the rehearsal dinner will be held at a nearby venue that provides guests with food and drinks to celebrate a successful wedding rehearsal and the wedding date. As such, rehearsal dinners are often called the ‘party before the party.’ Considerations for Choosing Your Rehearsal Dinner Outfit As you start to choose your rehearsal dinner outfit, there are a few things you will need to keep in mind to be certain that your outfit is both stylish and appropriate for the occasion. We list these factors below so you can review them before thinking about which rehearsal dinner style is best for you. Location The location and venue of your rehearsal dinner event are especially important to keep in mind, as many locations may have a variety of dress code requirements or unique vibes that you will need to dress appropriately for. For example, if a rehearsal dinner is being held at a beach-front bar or restaurant, then an outfit that is lighter and more flowy may be more appropriate. Alternatively, if a rehearsal dinner is being held within an upscale hotel bar or restaurant, then you might need to dress with more formality and add things like high heels to your outfit. The location of your rehearsal dinner event should be listed on the invitation. If you have any questions about a venue or location, you should contact the event organizers to ensure you are prepared. Dress Code Requests Sometimes, the wedding party will make certain dress code requests for those attending their wedding. This could be things like all-black attire, formal evening gowns, or semi-casual attire. They may even ask for a specific theme, like the 1920s or Western styling. Specific colors or patterns may be requested, or the bride and groom may ask you to avoid wearing certain colors. It’s important to pay attention to these requests and keep them in mind as you choose your own rehearsal dinner outfit. Following dress code requests shows respect to the star couple and ensures that you don’t accidentally commit a fashion faux pas. Weather and Season The weather and season in which your rehearsal dinner is being held can often factor into the type of outfit you wear for your rehearsal dinner. Fall and winter rehearsal dinners typically call for indoor venues, and you may need an outfit that is more layered or features jackets and other warm accessories like scarves. On the other hand, spring and summer rehearsal dinners could be held outdoors, which means you might need lighter and brighter clothing. You may want to match the theme of the season by wearing pastels, floral patterns, or other brighter and summery colors. Accessories Another consideration to make when choosing your rehearsal dinner outfit is whether or not you wish to accessorize your outfit. You may also want to think about specific accessories to pair with your outfit. Certain jackets, shoes, ties, or items of jewelry may only look good with specific dresses, skirts, pants, or colors. It is always important to keep this in mind when dressing for any event, but especially something like a rehearsal dinner. Wedding Rehearsal Attire: What to Wear to a Rehearsal Dinner Figuring out what to wear to a rehearsal dinner can be confusing, as you will need to keep several factors in mind as you decide on your outfit. Below, we give you ideas and suggestions on what to wear to a rehearsal dinner, no matter your role in the wedding you are attending. Rehearsal Dinner Attire as a Member of the Wedding Party Members of the wedding party include the couple getting married and the bridesmaids or groomsmen. In general, you can expect a rehearsal dinner to be a more upscale event than a bachelorette or bachelor party. Dress code expectations do vary depending on what the bride and groom have requested. However, a more modest outfit, such as a slip dress or longer cocktail dress, a classy jumpsuit, or a tailored pair of pants and a collared shirt are all great options. Rehearsal Dinner Attire as a Parent or Family Member Depending on what the married couple-to-be requests, parents and family members may need to follow a certain dress code, such as all-black attire or formal attire. These specific attire requests are often made to ensure that photographs turn out looking uniform. You can expect the formality to be a step up from casual, yet not as formal as you will need to wear during the wedding. Longer dresses, tailored suits, and skirts with blouses are all great options for rehearsal dinner outfits. Rehearsal Dinner Attire as a Friend For friends and other loved ones who are invited to a rehearsal dinner, it’s important to keep in mind the general rules of etiquette for a wedding. Avoid the color white (or anything that resembles a wedding dress) and avoid making any risky fashion choices or wearing a super revealing outfit to the rehearsal dinner. Your outfit should be classy, somewhat formal, and match the vibe of the venue you are attending. Dresses, skirts with blouses, and a pair of dress pants and a blouse or collared shirt are all great options for rehearsal dinner outfits. Where Can I Buy My Rehearsal Dinner Outfit? Once you have a good idea of what you want to wear to a rehearsal dinner, you may be wondering where to get your outfit or if you can purchase it online or in person. In general, you may be able to find your rehearsal dinner outfit at local malls or boutique stores, as these stores carry a range of outfits that can match all formality styles. If you are shopping on a budget, a thrift store may be a good idea, or you can search for your rehearsal dinner outfit online. However, remember to leave enough time for shipping and returns if you do plan on ordering your rehearsal outfit from an online store. What to Wear to a Wedding Rehearsal  A wedding rehearsal is a little different than a rehearsal dinner, but there are similar expectations. As we mentioned earlier, during a wedding rehearsal, you’re going over the staging for the ceremony itself; for instance, the order in which the wedding party will proceed down the aisle.  Most of the time, wedding rehearsals and rehearsal dinners take place on the same day or evening, so you’ll just wear your rehearsal dinner outfit. If the wedding rehearsal is on a different day than the rehearsal dinner, finding an outfit that suits the same dress code parameters as a rehearsal dinner outfit will be perfect.  If you want, you can even choose an outfit with similar colors as your planned wedding ceremony outfit! Keeping It Stylish at Your Next Rehearsal Dinner Rehearsal dinners are often fun, carefree events that tend to be more formal than the other events that can lead up to a wedding date. It’s always important to keep dress code requirements and other important venue and location factors in mind when choosing your rehearsal dinner outfit. You should always follow the rules of wedding etiquette as you pick an outfit to wear while you celebrate the almost-newlyweds. Tags:  Bridal

Deciding what to wear to a bridal shower can be stressful, as you will no doubt want to pick an outfit that flatters you and helps you look your best while not overshadowing the bride or going against dress code requests. Since there are likely lots of pictures taken at a bridal shower, you will surely want to ensure your bridal shower outfit perfectly fits into your event’s theme. Our article gives you more details on what to expect at a bridal shower in addition to ideas on what to wear and special items to consider when picking your bridal shower outfit. What to Expect at a Bridal Shower Bridal showers are typically more casual and intimate gatherings that are held for a bride before her big day. Both family and friends are usually invited to bridal showers, and the vibe of these events varies greatly from a bachelorette party, which is generally more upbeat and limited to members of the bridal party. It’s often more similar to an engagement party, though both these and bridal showers can vary depending on their theme. At a bridal shower, you can expect a nice lunch or dinner, gift-giving, and bridal games to celebrate the bride and have a nice time. Depending on your bride’s wishes, family and friends may swap stories about the bride, there may be time for pictures and videos and best wishes on the upcoming marriage. Today, bridal showers are becoming more all-gender events, and couples may be invited to celebrate both the bride and the groom. What Should I Consider When Choosing a Bridal Shower Outfit? When choosing your bridal shower outfit, there are a few very important things that you should be keeping in mind. We list these factors below so you know what to look out for when choosing your bridal shower style. Make sure you consult with the bride or individual hosting your bridal shower event if you have any questions about the venue, dress code, or other important bridal shower items. Doing so will help you avoid accidentally committing a fashion faux pas. Venue The venue where your bridal shower event is held plays a very important part in your outfit. For example, if you are outdoors in a park in the middle of summer, you will likely want a more loose and flowy summer dress. Conversely, if your bridal shower is being held in a hotel or other upscale lounge, you may want to pick something that is a step above casual. Weather and Season How hot or cold it is outside paired with the season in which a bridal shower event is held should factor into your bridal shower outfit. In general, spring and summer bridal showers lend themselves to brighter clothing, flowy items, and pastel colors. Fall and winter bring cozier clothing, long-sleeved dresses, and accessories like scarves, and warm jackets. Dress Code Requests Following the dress code requests of a bridal shower is very important. You will want to make sure that you follow the bride’s wishes and that you avoid standing out too much or looking like you're wearing a wedding dress. A bridal shower is not the time to debut your new risqué outfit, nor is it the time to take fashion risks and hope they pay off. You should be doing your best to dress within the formality requirements of the bridal shower, look your best, and ensure that your bride feels the most special they can during their shower. Comfort Your own comfort is very important with a bridal shower outfit, especially if you know that there will be games or other events where you might be expected to move around. In some cases, bridal showers will have interesting themes, and you will need to dress comfortably within the parameters of that theme. You should consult with the organizer of the bridal shower if you have any questions about the events or games being held throughout the bridal shower. Outfit Ideas for a Bridal Shower Dressing for your next bridal shower as a guest doesn’t have to be as challenging as you might think. There are several different options for bridal shower outfits. As long as you keep important factors in mind like the formality of your event and any dress code requests, you should easily be able to find the perfect outfit. Dresses Dresses are very common for bridal showers, and casual dresses make for the best choices. Depending on the season, you could wear a summer dress, or a longer slip dress in colder months paired with a jacket. In general, you won’t want to wear anything too formal, and bright colors and pastels typically complement most bridal shower themes and the fun of the occasion. Skirts and Blouses Skirts and blouses are another classic choice for a bridal shower, and you can easily keep your outfit more casual or dress up your skirt and shirt outfit for a slightly more upscale bridal shower. We recommend flowy skirts and blouses that fit well but aren’t too revealing or low-cut, as most bridal showers tend to be modest and casual affairs. Pants and Blouses If you aren’t much of a skirt person, you may want to wear a nice pair of dress pants or slacks and a suitable blouse for a bridal shower. This is perfectly acceptable, though you should likely stay away from jeans or other ripped and loose-fitting pants unless the dress code of your bridal shower specifies that denim is acceptable. Suits While some types of suits may be too formal for a bridal shower, a neatly tailored suit or a pair of dress pants and a collared shirt do make for a great option. With the right styling, a suit can be perfect for those bridal showers that aren’t quite formal but are a step above casual. You can leave off the ties or suit jackets to dress down your suit and make sure that your items are tailored to your body to ensure a good fit and a presentable appearance. Where Can I Buy My Bridal Shower Outfit? Purchasing your bridal shower outfit can be confusing, but there are, fortunately, plenty of places that allow you to browse suitable bridal shower outfits. We recommend looking around your local mall or shopping at boutique stores to find the perfect outfit. Thrift stores are great options if you are on a budget, while online shopping is an easy way to filter the styles, colors, and sizes you are interested in and purchase your favorite bridal shower. Dressing Your Bridal Shower Best Choosing what to wear to your next bridal shower doesn’t need to be anxiety-inducing. To make this process simple, keep in mind important factors of your bridal shower event. These include the dress code, the venue, and the weather or season, and make sure that you are prepared if there are games or other events. You can wear any type of outfit that makes you feel comfortable and look your best, and you should be prepared to have a great time and celebrate the bride. Tags:  Bridal

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! Weddings are some of the biggest and most important events in someone’s life. Unfortunately, this means they can also be super stressful, with checklists a mile long, from rehearsal dinners to engagement photoshoots. Going to your bridal dress appointment is a very exciting and important part of the process, so it makes sense that you want to get it right. Being appropriately prepared for wedding dress shopping can help reduce some of that stress and make it easier to find the right dress for your big day. For the best experience, you want to surround yourself with supportive people, do some research in advance, and dress for the event. Here are our top tips on what to wear for your bridal dress appointment. Choosing Your Core Outfit It can be hard to choose an outfit to wear wedding dress shopping, especially when you have so many other elements to consider. You might also feel like there’s no point in putting any effort into your outfit since you’ll be spending the day in other clothes. However, choosing a good outfit can help put you in a better headspace for your appointment. Wear: A simple and comfortable outfit that’s easy to get in and out of will save you time and struggle. Picking something that expresses your personal style will also help clue in the staff and help them choose better options for you to try. Pack: A sweater in case you get chilly between try-ons and some comfy shoes to wear to and from the appointment. Leave at Home: Any garment that has zippers you can’t reach or other complicated closures is just going to frustrate you. Also, avoid anything that you feel self-conscious in. An outfit you’re constantly tugging at isn’t going to make you feel like a beautiful bride. Think About Your Lingerie Trying on wedding dresses is not a private event. Because many dresses are complicated or hard to close on your own, an employee will often accompany you into the dressing room to help you get in and out of the gowns. With that in mind, wear underwear that you’re comfortable being seen in; that might be something with more coverage. Wear: Wear neutral, seamless underwear that feels comfortable. If you plan on wearing shapewear, wear it to your try-on session. Pack: You can pack some shapewear options if you aren’t sure what you want to do on the day yet. You might also bring a strapless bra for trying on strapless and off-the-shoulder styles. Leave at Home: Bras, corsets, and bridal lingerie aren’t going to be comfortable or practical for your dress appointment. Most brides end up choosing a bra that fits the neckline of the dress they end up selecting, but many dresses have supportive structures that may let you forgo a bra altogether, so keep it simple with a comfortable skin tone bra for your appointment. Be Mindful of Your Shoes Shoes can really make a big difference when it comes to your wedding look, but if you haven’t picked a dress yet, you probably haven’t picked shoes either. Don’t sweat it too much. Wear: Choose a pair of shoes in a height you’re comfortable with in a neutral color so that you can see what length of wedding dress you want. Pack: If you have a few shoe styles or heights you’re considering, you can bring them with you to try with your shortlist of favorite dresses. Leave at Home: Don’t wear uncomfortable shoes. It’s going to be a long day with a lot of outfit changes, so any discomfort is going to sap your energy. You also don’t want to be uncomfortable on your big day, so keep that in mind. Wear Simple Jewelry You might want to go all out with the bling on your big day, but for your initial bridal appointments, you actually want to keep it simple. Jewelry can get in the way and distract from your dress search. Focus on the dress now and worry about the jewelry later. Wear: Your engagement ring! Pack: If you have any special pieces of jewelry that you really want to be a part of your wedding ensemble, pack them in your appointment bag. If you find a dress you really love, you can see how well the piece works with it. Leave at Home: Leave off any jewelry for the actual fitting so you don’t risk snagging an expensive gown on your favorite bracelet, or risk a beloved necklace falling off somewhere on the fitting room floor. Stick to Basic Makeup Most brides opt for at least some makeup on their wedding day because flash photography can be unforgiving to the complexion. Some choose to go for a no-makeup natural look, and others like to go full glam for their day as the star of the show. Whatever your daily makeup routine, you might wonder what the protocol is for a bridal dress appointment. Wear: Stick with light makeup that makes you feel good–think of a simple combo like BB creme, mascara, and lip tint. Even if you normally wear zero makeup day-to-day, a little bit can help you envision how you’ll look at your wedding and help you feel more beautiful and confident. Pack: Bring a little lip balm and a powder compact with you so you can do a quick touch-up during the day if you start to feel too dry or too oily. Leave at Home: If you’re a makeup lover who enjoys doing full contour and cat eyes every day, we respect your game, but you might want to tone it down a bit for your bridal appointment. You don’t want to risk getting makeup on the inside of an expensive white dress while changing. Wear enough so that you feel like yourself, but let your natural skin tone shine through so you can choose a dress that matches your natural beauty. Choose a Practical Hairstyle Bridal hairdos tend to be way more complicated than we wear day-to-day. For a bridal dress appointment, though, you don’t have to worry about having the perfect updo or any fancy clips and combs. Wear: If you have short hair, style it with barrettes to keep it out of your face and help it stay neat through the try-on process. For longer hair, we recommend putting it in a ponytail or braid. Pack: You can bring extra elastics or a big claw clip to help sweep your hair out of the way if needed. For dresses with back details or cut-outs, getting your hair up off your neck can be useful to better see the style. Leave at Home: Any hair accessories will just be in the way. Headbands, tiaras, and veils can be added later. Sometimes the bridal shop will supply options for you to try with different dresses, so don’t worry about having to provide your own. Have the Best Bridal Dress Appointment There are lots of details to consider when shopping for your wedding dress, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming and complicated. Follow the tips in this guide, and you’re sure to be comfortable through your wedding dress appointment. Most importantly, this is all about your special day, so make sure to have fun! Tags:  Bridal