What to Wear to a Black Tie Wedding: Black Tie Attire for Women

Black tie is one of the most formal dress codes you will see on a wedding invitation, which usually means an evening ceremony, a dinner reception and a dressed-up crowd. This guide explains what black tie means for women, how it differs from similar dress codes, and how to choose your gown, colors, fabrics, accessories and outerwear. For a broader overview of every dress code, see our guide to wedding guest attire.

What Does a Woman Wear to a Black Tie Wedding?

The answer is an evening gown. A black tie gown should reach the floor (or just skim it in heels), be made from a fabric with some richness or structure, and feel polished from neckline to hem. Beyond that, you have plenty of room to choose a silhouette that suits you:

• Column or sheath: sleek and understated, an easy choice if you prefer minimal styling.
• Mermaid or trumpet: fitted through the body and flared at the hem, a classic evening shape.
• A-line: fitted at the bodice with a skirt that skims away from the body, flattering on most figures and easy to move in.
• Ball gown: the most dramatic option, best suited to a grand venue or a winter wedding.

Necklines can range from a classic sweetheart to a halter, one-shoulder or long-sleeved style. Embellishment such as beading or sequins is welcome at black tie, as long as the overall look reads as elegant rather than costume-like. Browse our formal dresses for more full-length options, or our couture collection for heavily embellished gowns that fit the most formal occasions.

Can You Wear a Cocktail Dress to a Black Tie Wedding?

For a strict black tie wedding, a floor-length gown is the safest choice. A cocktail-length dress is more appropriate for "black tie optional" or "formal" invitations. If you do choose a shorter dress for black tie optional, make it a very elegant one: a luxe fabric, a refined cut, below-the-knee or midi length, and dressy accessories. When the invitation simply says "black tie" with no qualifier, go long.

Can a Woman Wear a Pantsuit to a Black Tie Event?

Yes, if it is clearly eveningwear. Choose a tailored suit or wide-leg jumpsuit in a formal fabric like satin, crepe or velvet, in black or a deep color, and dress it up with statement jewelry and heels. A daytime work suit will not read as black tie.

Black Tie vs. Black Tie Optional vs. Formal vs. White Tie

These dress codes are often confused. Here is how they generally compare for women:

• White tie: the most formal dress code of all. Women wear a full-length ball gown or formal evening gown, often with long gloves. It is rare at weddings.
• Black tie: a floor-length evening gown is expected. Men wear tuxedos.
• Black tie optional: a floor-length gown is still a great choice, but an elegant cocktail dress, dressy midi or formal pantsuit is also acceptable. Men may wear a tuxedo or a dark suit and tie.
• Formal (or black tie preferred/invited): similar to black tie optional. Long gowns, elegant cocktail dresses and dressy separates all work. Our wedding guest attire guide covers every dress code.

If you are unsure which category a wedding falls into, err on the more formal side. It is rarely a problem to be the best-dressed guest, but it can feel uncomfortable to be underdressed.

What Fabrics Are Best for Black Tie?

Fabric does as much work as silhouette in signaling black tie. Look for materials with sheen, weight or texture:

• Satin and silk: classic and luminous; lighter weights work well in warm weather.
• Crepe: smooth and fluid, with a modern, refined finish.
• Velvet: ideal for fall and winter weddings.
• Lace and beaded or sequined fabrics: instantly formal and perfect for evening.
• Tulle and chiffon: soft and airy, beautiful in fuller skirts and layered gowns.

Let the season guide you. A lightweight satin or chiffon gown suits a summer wedding, while velvet or heavier satin feels right in winter. Avoid fabrics that look casual, such as jersey, cotton or linen.

What Colors Can You Wear to a Black Tie Wedding?

Black tie favors rich, sophisticated color. Black is the timeless choice, and deep jewel tones are just as appropriate: navy, emerald, sapphire, burgundy, plum and deep teal. Metallics such as gold, silver and champagne also feel right for an evening celebration. Softer shades like dusty blue or blush can work too, especially at a spring or summer wedding, as long as the fabric and cut are formal.

Can You Wear a Black Dress to a Black Tie Wedding?

Yes. A black gown is one of the most classic choices for black tie, and it is not considered rude or somber at an evening wedding. The only exception is if the couple has asked guests to avoid black; in that case, choose navy, burgundy or another deep tone. Browse our black formal dresses for floor-length options.

What Colors Should You Avoid?

• White, ivory and cream: these are reserved for the bride. Avoid gowns that read as white in photos, including very pale champagne or silver.
• The bridesmaids' color: if you know what the wedding party is wearing, choose something different.
• Neon or very bright shades: these tend to look less formal and can stand out in a distracting way.

How Should You Accessorize for Black Tie?

Accessories should finish your look, not compete with it. A few guidelines:

• Bag: a small clutch or minaudière in satin, metallic or a beaded finish. Leave your everyday bag at home.
• Jewelry: balance it with your gown. A high or embellished neckline pairs well with statement earrings and no necklace; a simple strapless or V-neck gown can carry a necklace. Fine jewelry or high-quality costume pieces both work.
• Shoes: dressy heeled sandals or pumps in a metallic, neutral or tone-matched shade. Elegant flats are fine if you will be on your feet all night, since a floor-length gown will cover most of your shoes.
• Hair and makeup: polished and intentional. An updo, chignon, sleek low bun or soft waves all suit black tie. A defined eye or a classic red lip adds evening drama without looking overdone.

What Should You Wear Over Your Gown?

For a cool evening or an outdoor ceremony, plan your outerwear as part of the look. Good options include a tailored wool coat in black or camel, a velvet or satin evening wrap, a faux fur stole or shrug, or an elegant pashmina in a color that complements your gown. Avoid casual layers like denim jackets, puffers or cardigans. If you expect to be cold all evening, a long-sleeved gown is an elegant alternative to layering.

How Do You Make Sure Your Gown Fits and Feels Comfortable?

Fit makes the biggest difference in how formal a gown looks. Plan time for alterations so the bodice fits closely and the hem sits just above the floor in the exact shoes you will wear. Before the wedding, practice walking, sitting and dancing in your gown and shoes so you can enjoy the evening comfortably. Styles fit differently, so trying gowns on in person is the best way to find your size.

What Do Men Wear to a Black Tie Wedding?

Men wear a tuxedo: a black or midnight blue dinner jacket with satin or grosgrain lapels, matching trousers with a satin side stripe, a white formal shirt, a black bow tie, and black patent leather or highly polished dress shoes. Tuxedo trousers are traditionally worn with suspenders rather than a belt, and should be hemmed to just touch the top of the shoe. Classic finishing touches include cufflinks, a white pocket square and a simple dress watch. If you are coordinating with a partner, a pocket square or boutonniere that picks up the color of your gown ties the two looks together.

Finding Your Black Tie Gown

The short version: for a black tie wedding, choose a floor-length gown in a rich fabric and a sophisticated color, keep accessories refined, and make fit your priority. Sherri Hill gowns are sold through authorized retailers. Use Find A Store to locate one near you; a retailer can check whether a style is available to order in your color and size.

For black-tie events beyond weddings, see what to wear to a black-tie event. Mothers of the couple can find more ideas in the mother of the bride dress guide.