Wedding Guest Attire

Getting a wedding invitation can be a super joyous occasion; it’s wonderful to be asked to participate in such a special day. That said, choosing what to wear can be a challenge, especially when there’s a heightened sense of pressure to get it right. 

Not only that, but dress codes for weddings can be confusing, only adding to the anxiety. Luckily, we’re here to help, so you can spend less time stressing and more time preparing in other ways for the big day. 

Below, we break down the most popular wedding dress codes and give you a few outfit ideas to help you get started in your shopping. 

What Is Appropriate Wedding Guest Attire? 

Appropriate wedding guest attire highly depends on the dress code provided, which we’ll get into later. The first thing you’ll want to consider, though, is the color of your outfit. 

Obviously, off-limits colors are off-limits. White or any dress that resembles a wedding gown is a typical no-no, though it’s great to check what color the star couple is wearing, just in case. Black and red used to be very taboo colors to wear to weddings, though many modern couples don’t mind either of these color selections as long as the red isn’t too flashy. 

You also may want to avoid any colors that the wedding party is wearing, especially if you’re not super close with the couple getting married; that could get awkward! If you’re unsure, always check your planned outfit’s color choice with someone in or organizing the wedding. Finally, if the couple asks that you do wear a certain color, respect that. 

Most importantly, you’ll want to make sure your clothes are clean, crisp, and comfortable; keep in mind that you’ll generally be sitting for a period of time and then, likely, doing some dancing. So, be sure you select a look that can take you through the best of both worlds without breaking a sweat. 

Wedding Guest Attire Ideas Based on Dress Code

Did you get a wedding invite featuring a dress code that you’re not sure about? Or, just looking for outfit ideas for your next wedding? Regardless, we have you covered with our guide to the most popular wedding guest dress codes. 

White Tie

This is the most formal dress code, both for weddings and for events in general. White tie weddings specifically require a tuxedo that has tails on it, which is one of the most formal garments you can buy. 

For a white tie wedding, even if it’s set during the day, you’ll want to opt for a neutral-colored dress, as black or navy is more formal than pastels or other tones. A dress should be floor-length, so be careful if there’s dancing. 

Black Tie 

Like white tie weddings, black tie dress codes also require a tuxedo, but they don’t need tails. Black tie dresses can be a little less formal than a white tie, but you still want them to be darker in hue and floor length (or at least hitting your shoes). Choose a dress with minimal embellishment to keep the attention on the party. 

Jumpsuits can also be a good option for a black tie wedding, though do be sure that it’s formal enough. In this case, you’ll want to make sure there are embellishments and formal details like a structured silhouette, beading, and sleeves. 

For more on accessorizing for this dress code, check out our in-depth guide on what to wear to a black tie wedding. 

Black Tie Optional 

Black tie optional is a dress code firmly between black tie and formal, described below. For these weddings, you can wear a tuxedo and a full-length dress and fit right in, but it’s not a requirement. 

Suits are appropriate at a black tie optional wedding, as are tea-length dresses. However, if the wedding is going to be in the evening (after 6:30 P.M.), you may want to opt for the floor-length look, as later events tend to run more formal. 

Formal 

This is one of the most common wedding dress codes, and luckily, it’s fairly straightforward. Suits and longer dresses are appropriate; don’t go any shorter than tea-length. Suits should always be black or deep navy, but dresses can vary a bit more in hue as long as the color is more formal than not (for instance, neon pink may not be appropriate). 

A formal dress code also offers a bit of wiggle room in the neckline; a dark-hued one-shoulder dress can perfectly strike the balance between formality and modernity. 

Cocktail or Semi-Formal

This dress code is another that’s very popular with wedding organizers, and it can be one of the most confusing. Firstly, cocktail and semi-formal tend to be used interchangeably, and the general vibe is something between business casual and formal. 

An elevated midi dress is tailor-made for these dress codes, as they’re long but not too long (and cropped without being too short). You also can’t go wrong with a suit featuring a jewel-toned tie or a maxi dress in a print. Daytime summer weddings are perfect for a floral, especially in pastels.

Context is going to be really important for this one when it comes to color choice or whether you can go with a print or a light color and fit in. When in doubt, though, go a little more formal. 

Festive or Themed

This one’s super subjective, as different themes will mean different things. Typically, some other information will be included; in the case of ‘tropical,’ ‘beach,’ or ‘destination’ dress codes, you’ll be told where the event will be and whether a bathing suit is appropriate. Other dress codes may be included, too, like ‘formal western.’ 

If you don’t want to look costumey, consider incorporating key theme colors or details into your look. For instance, if you’re heading to a Gatsby-themed wedding, go with a look featuring a bit of fringe and wear a headband that nods to the flapper style. 

This is one dress code that organizers are likely expecting questions on, so don’t be afraid to reach out to them or other people you know who are going to the wedding to confer. Definitely keep in mind the climate and type of year so you’re dressed to the temperature, especially if you’re traveling to a destination. 

Casual

The casual wedding dress code is a little misleading. While it’s casual, you’ll still want to dress up a bit; go with a business casual vibe. It’s still a wedding, so of course you’ll want to look crisp and put together in pictures. So, unless the dress code specifically states that you can wear jeans, avoid them. 

Casual wedding dress codes are perfect for printed dresses and jumpsuits in less-formal silhouettes or fabrics. If the wedding takes place any earlier than the evening, don’t be afraid to go with pastels, as long as they’re not too light. 

What If There’s No Dress Code Listed?

Sometimes the organizers won’t list a dress code – don’t panic! 

First, look at any clues on the invitation or the wedding website. Sometimes, the dress code may not be on the main page and can be found in a section labeled “FAQ” or “Before You Attend.” 

If there’s no direction on the website, note the time of day and the venue. Googling the venue and seeing what the vibe is like can give you a lot of guidance on what kinds of clothes you should consider. Plus, generally, the later in the evening the wedding is, the more formal it’s going to be, so this will be a pretty good clue. 

If you’re still not sure, reach out to the organizers and ask. 

Does Time of Year Matter for Wedding Attire? 

Yes, when you’re choosing an outfit for a wedding, you’ll want to keep the time of year in mind. If it’s a spring or summertime wedding, you can generally opt for lighter fabrics and colors unless it’s a very formal wedding (black tie or white tie).

For an autumn or winter wedding, stick with darker colors and choose fabrics that are a bit heavier. You may also want to incorporate some cold-weather accessories, such as a matching shawl or tights, to ensure you stay warm, especially if the wedding is taking place outside. 

For a dress (or other look) that you can wear to multiple weddings across different seasons, opt for medium-weight fabric choices and more neutral colors, such as navy or black. The great thing about this type of base is that you can accessorize it endlessly, and it can take you through a ton of different events. 

Dressing Your Wedding Best! 

Now that you know the ins and outs of wedding guest attire, you can shop for and attend your next wedding with confidence and style!